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It wasn't until I was 21 and working as a sales associate at a sex toy store that I found out about pegging. Seeing my partner, who was a big buff "manly man," in such a receptive and somewhat vulnerable sexual state was such a beautiful and liberating experience for both of us. In some relationships the man is kept completely celibate and expresses his sexuality only through his partner's orgasms, but that's a different thing from what I am talking about.

Talk with your partner about what to expect and set a couple of rules for a safe and exciting first time pegging experience. To avoid any pain or discomfort, I'd suggest you give your partner a few minutes to play with the dildo before you put it on. Observe his speed and depth of penetration and learn.

Shopping for the harness and dildo together ensures both of your inputs are considered which in turn increases the chances of enjoying your purchase. Some harnesses will easily allow you to switch out dildos while the strap-on harness is on your body, best pegging toys though. No, not ALL men want it, but in my experience, MOST men who admit to a desire for male chastity have permanent orgasm denial as their ultimate fantasy.

In terms of physical pleasure, a woman's genitals may get direct stimulation from the base of the dildo, or in the case of a double-ended dildo , from vaginal (or internal) penetration. Some people also enjoy strapon pegging for accessibility reasons. The dildos feature a dual-density build featuring an hard inner core, and a soft outer layer that feels very much like a real cock.

Unlike with standard penetration where all of the bits tend to be all in the same spot, using a strapon pegging harness allows for a lot more freedom of movement for more manual stimulation during penetration. Unlike a biological penis, your partner can't feel” their strapon, so it can be hard to tell if they're getting near your entrance or not.

Pegging is exciting and goes against everything we've been taught about sex, yet for me, it felt more innocent and intimate than a lot of my other experiences. However, you don't need to get worked up; here are some of the tips to a successful strapon pegging experience.

Seeing my partner, who was a big buff "manly man," in such a receptive and somewhat vulnerable sexual state was such a beautiful and liberating experience for both of us. In some relationships the man is kept completely celibate and expresses his sexuality only through his partner's orgasms, but that's a different thing from what I am talking about.